Heather (she/her)
November Newsletter
New Spaces, honest conversations, and a little love to celebrate.
Totem Blog
Updates, guides, and personal stories
Heather (she/her)
October Newsletter
A little magic, a lot happening.
Vanessa Rae
A Conditional Home
A go-bag, a wasted weekend, and the loneliness that comes with not knowing where home is.
Vanessa Rae
Daughter of an Absent DJ
Absent fathers, complicated mothers, family secrets, and the stories we inherit about love, abandonment, and belonging.
Vanessa Rae
When Stability Wasn't Enough
I thought I fixed the right things. So why do I feel like this?
Heather (she/her)
Totem Newsletter! July
Fairy tales, community events, a new blog, and a first look at the Totem web app.
Heather (she/her)
Community Care, Reimagined
How digital spaces can make real connection more accessible
Heather (she/her)
Totem Newsletter: June!
Vanessa Rae
Fuck, Not Again
The intersection between burnout, depression, and finding purpose in a world you feel completely alone in.
Vanessa Rae
Twirl
Family, self-abandonment, and the grief of realizing that love and understanding are not always the same thing.
Heather (she/her)
Where the Hell is the Village?
Why so many moms feel alone and what it really takes to build a village today
Vanessa Rae
That Time ChatGPT Became My Therapist
Alcohol, loneliness, and using technology as a support system.