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Rage Quit

Gamer Space 👾
with Gianni M
Starting Aug 13, 2026 5PM UTC

About this Session

The rage quit was never really about the game.

When taking the L shouldn't matter but does, when the teammate makes one mistake too many, when the heat that comes up within you faster than the situation deserves, and suddenly the lobby is empty, the controller is down, and the heart is still pounding over something that will be hard to explain tomorrow.

It's just a game. But for a lot of us, games are one of the only places anger is allowed to show itself at all. Everywhere else it stays packed down, rationalized away.

But anger rarely travels alone. When a straw can break the camel's back, the still waters of the soul run deep with frustration from days of feeling stuck, feeling disrespected, feeling like effort isn't paying off, not just in the one game, but anywhere, no matter how hard we grind. The game just happens to be where the lid comes off.

Many of us have also been in the room with someone else's rage. The friend or teammate melting down in voice chat. Sometimes the hardest part isn't our own anger at all; it's not knowing what to do when anger arises in someone we care about.

In this session no one will tell you to calm down or walk it off. This is an invitation to look honestly at what anger is actually about, where it comes from, what it may be trying to say, and what to do when we're standing next to it.

About this Space

The gaming community is a massive social conduit. Yet somehow, it can still feel incredibly lonely.

This is a Space for gamers to speak honestly about what's going on beneath the surface, without needing to have it all together, perform for the group, or leave the hard stuff at the door.

Gaming is one of the most powerful community-builders of our time. We can bond deeply over a shared world, a competitive or cooperative grind, or a stream we've followed for years. But those connections are often built around the activity itself, and it can be hard to find a natural opening to talk about what's really going on: stress, isolation, questions of identity, and the emotional weight that doesn't pause when we pick up a controller.

This group offers a place to slow down and reflect in the company of others who get the culture and are curious about the inner life that exists alongside it. Together we'll explore the ways gaming shapes how we connect, how we cope, and how we see ourselves. We'll sit with questions about community, belonging, mental health, and what it means to find real support in spaces that weren't always designed for it.

There's no pressure to show up any particular way, just an invitation to be real, in whatever way feels right.

Meet the Keeper

Gianni M

Los Angeles, CA

"Acting is the study of human behavior, and there is nothing more fascinating than that." -Lee Strassberg

Gianni (he/him) is an actor based in Los Angeles. His study of the performing arts across screen and stage has informed his understanding of the human condition through analysis of our ancient urge …

Reach out to the Keeper: gianni@totem.org
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