About this Session
A session for exploring how to build better, sustainable habits.
Most of us know the feeling of wanting to get our lives “together.”
We make plans to wake up earlier, exercise regularly, cook more, save money, answer emails, keep our spaces clean, or finally build a routine that makes everything feel a little more manageable. But real life has a way of interrupting even the best intentions.
In this session, we’ll explore the routines and habits that shape our everyday lives and why building them can be so much harder than simply deciding we want to.
Together, we’ll reflect on motivation, consistency, discipline, burnout, executive functioning, and the pressure to find a perfect routine. What habits genuinely support us, and which ones do we feel like we should have? How do we build structure without making life feel rigid? And what happens when the routines we worked hard to create fall apart?
This isn’t a session about becoming perfectly productive or waking up at 5 a.m. It’s a space to explore what sustainable routines look like for real people with changing schedules, energy levels, responsibilities, and lives.
This session is for you if:
- You struggle to maintain routines or stick with habits
- You feel overwhelmed by everyday responsibilities
- You’re trying to create more structure in your life
- You often start new habits but have trouble sustaining them
- You’re curious about what consistency could look like without perfection
You don’t need to have your life perfectly organized to belong here. Together, we’ll explore how to build rhythms that support the lives we actually live. 💛
About this Space
Adulting is a space for figuring life out together without pretending you have it all together.
No one really explains adulthood.
One day you’re expected to know how to manage money, cook meals, navigate healthcare, build a career, maintain relationships, set boundaries, and regulate your emotions (all while somehow still having a five-year plan).
Meanwhile, most of us are quietly Googling things like “how often do you wash sheets?” and “is everyone else this tired all the time?”
This space is for the unglamorous, very human side of growing up — the responsibilities that pile up, the invisible labor, the comparison, the constant low-grade feeling of am I doing this right?
Through small, guided conversations, we talk honestly about what adulthood actually feels like. Not advice. Not productivity hacks. Not “fix yourself” energy. Just real people sharing what’s hard, what’s confusing, and what they’re learning along the way.
This space is for you if:
- You feel like everyone else got a manual you missed
- Everyday responsibilities feel heavier than they “should”
- You’re navigating money, work, or independence and learning as you go
- You’re tired of pretending you know what you’re doing
- You want honest, low-pressure conversations about real life
Whether you’re 22 or 42, thriving or spiraling, starting fresh or rebuilding — you’re welcome here.
We’re all just learning in real time.
How Does it Work?
This is an open, guided discussion led by your Keeper, Jesse. Each participant will have the opportunity to listen to and share experiences on belonging, identity, community, and whatever else comes up during the session.
When and How Do We Meet?
We meet digitally every couple of weeks to make participation easy for those with demanding schedules. Cameras are optional, and you’re welcome to join from wherever you are, even between shifts. We only ask that you find a private place to join or use headphones to help maintain the security of everyone present.
Meet the Keeper
Jesse
Hey there! I'm Jesse. My professional background is in communications and advocacy and I'm passionate about making the world a safer, more just place to live in. I've studied and worked across issue areas and organizations.
Originally from Austin, Texas, I now live betwwen the U.S. and Italy. Outside of …
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