The holidays have a way of bringing the past into the present. A familiar song, a favorite recipe, or a tradition we haven't practiced in years can remind us of people who are no longer here, places we no longer call home, or versions of our lives that have changed. Sometimes we miss the holidays we grew up with; other times, we miss people, relationships, or a sense of belonging that we can't quite recreate. Even when we're happy with where we are now, we can find ourselves longing for something that once was.

In this session, we'll explore the complicated feelings that come with holiday nostalgia, change, and loss. We'll reflect on the memories we carry, the traditions that mean something different to us now, and the ways our ideas of home and togetherness evolve over time. Together, we'll consider how to honor what we miss while making room for new experiences, relationships, and traditions in the lives we're living today.

This session is for you if:

• You miss someone, somewhere, or some part of your life during the holidays
• The holidays bring up memories that feel both comforting and painful
• Your family traditions or relationships have changed over time
• You feel caught between wanting things to be the way they were and accepting that they aren't
• You're trying to find a sense of home or belonging in a new chapter of life

We can't always return to the places or people we miss, and we don't have to stop missing them to move forward. Let's make space for the memories we carry, the changes we've experienced, and the possibility of finding meaning in the holidays as they are now. 💛

Belonging is the space where we ask: Where do I fit in the world, and where do I fit within myself?

It’s about identity, home, community, and the quiet ache of wanting to be understood. In this space, we explore the places where we feel connected, the moments where we feel othered, and the relationships that shape our sense of self.

This is a space for the in-between places where belonging changes, breaks, rebuilds, or surprises us.

How Does it Work?
This is an open, guided discussion led by your Keeper, Jesse. Each participant will have the opportunity to listen to and share experiences on belonging, identity, community, and whatever else comes up during the session.

When and How Do We Meet?
We meet digitally every couple of weeks to make participation easy for those with demanding schedules. Cameras are optional, and you’re welcome to join from wherever you are, even between shifts. We only ask that you find a private place to join or use headphones to help maintain the security of everyone present.