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When the Holidays Are Over

Anxiety & the Inner World
with Jesse
Starting Jan 06, 2027 7PM UTC

About this Session

After weeks of anticipation, plans, celebrations, and changes to our usual routines, the end of the holidays can feel surprisingly complicated. The decorations come down, the calendar gets quieter, and everyday life starts up again. We might feel relieved to have our time back, sad that something we've been looking forward to has passed, lonely after spending time with others, or anxious about returning to responsibilities we've put aside. Sometimes, there's an unexpected emptiness after a season we've spent so much time preparing for.

In this session, we'll explore the emotional transition that comes when the holidays end. We'll reflect on why returning to everyday life can feel difficult, how the contrast between the excitement of the season and the quiet afterward affects us, and how expectations about the new year can add another layer of pressure. Together, we'll consider how to ease back into our routines, carry forward what felt meaningful, and give ourselves permission to adjust at our own pace.

This session is for you if:

  • You feel a little sad, unsettled, or empty when the holidays come to an end
  • You struggle with the transition back to work, school, or everyday routines
  • You miss the connection, excitement, or structure that the season brought
  • You feel pressure to start the new year with fresh goals, motivation, or a new version of yourself
  • You want to find a gentler way to move from the holidays into the months ahead

You don't have to turn the end of the holidays into a fresh start overnight. Let's make room for whatever comes after the excitement, appreciate what we want to carry with us, and remember that it's okay to take a little time to settle back into ourselves. 💛

About this Space

Anxiety & the Inner World is a space for exploring the emotions that live just beneath the surface: the spirals, the “what ifs,” the patterns we inherit, and the fears we carry quietly.

Here, we make room for sitting with the parts of ourselves that panic, overthink, and worry.

This space helps us slow down, notice our inner world without judgment, and build gentler ways of relating to ourselves and others.

How Does it Work?
This is an open, guided discussion led by your Keeper, Jesse. Each participant will have the opportunity to listen to and share experiences on anxiety, well-being, emotions, and whatever else comes up during the session.

When and How Do We Meet?
We meet digitally every couple of weeks to make participation easy for those with demanding schedules. Cameras are optional, and you’re welcome to join from wherever you are, even between shifts. We only ask that you find a private place to join or use headphones to help maintain the security of everyone present.

Meet the Keeper

Jesse

Between Texas and Italy

Hey there! I'm Jesse. My professional background is in communications and advocacy and I'm passionate about making the world a safer, more just place to live in. I've studied and worked across issue areas and organizations.

Originally from Texas, I now live between the U.S. and Italy. Outside of work, …

Reach out to the Keeper: jesse@totem.org
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