Parenting can bring us face-to-face with parts of our own childhood we thought we had moved past.

The way our children need comfort, protection, patience, play, reassurance, and love can remind us of what we received, what we missed, and what we are still learning to give ourselves.

This Session is about the complicated work of raising our children while healing the younger parts of ourselves. Together, we will explore the ways motherhood can reopen old wounds, offer new understanding, and give us opportunities to create something different for both our children and ourselves.

Life is Loud!

Come to a Space where you will be heard.

Feel like your voice is often drowned out? Whether you're an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, you'll find your voice within our community. We welcome mothers of all ages and experiences, creating a Space where every voice matters and every story adds to our collective wisdom.

We are better together!

Low Pressure, Low Commitment.

We know how hard it can be to carve out time for yourself. Join us as you can and as you are. However, due to limited seats, we ask that you try to release your spot at least 12 hours before the session if you can't attend.

Community-Driven Support.

Unlike traditional support groups, our Spaces are not led by professionals but facilitated by trained "Keepers" who ensure everyone has a chance to speak and be heard. We do not give advice, but offer a listening ear and shared experiences.

A Safe and Confidential Environment.

Your safety and confidentiality are our priorities. What's shared in Momma's Space stays in Momma’s Space. Our digital platform is secure, and our community is built on trust and mutual respect.

What We Discuss.

If you're new to support groups, we understand joining a Space might feel intimidating. To ease any anxiety, we always post the discussion topic before sign-up. Don't see a topic that interests you? Email us your suggestions at heather@totem.org.

Who Is This Space For?

This is a Space where we celebrate diversity, inclusion, our children, and each other. Bullying, racism, homophobia, shaming, or forced opinions are not tolerated. This Space is for mothers who want to uplift one another through shared experiences.

When and How do we Meet?

We meet digitally every two weeks, making it easy to fit into your busy schedule. We know finding time for yourself can be tough, so kiddos and breastfeeding are always welcome! We all keep ourselves on mute when not sharing, so no need to worry about distractions!

Don't see a time that fits your schedule? Email heather@totem.org with your availability, and we'll find a time that works for you!

"The human heart was not designed to beat outside the human body and yet, each child represented just that - a parent's heart bared, beating forever outside its chest."

Debra Ginsberg