Free Online Queer Support Groups
Talk about identity, relationships, and everyday life in small, affirming groups.
What Are Queer Spaces?
Sometimes you want to talk about your life without having to explain every part of who you are.
Queer Spaces are free, hour-long online peer support groups for LGBTQIA+ people, including those still exploring their identity. Talk about relationships, chosen family, identity, and whatever else is happening in your life. Each group brings together 3–8 people with a trained Keeper who guides the conversation. Everyone gets a turn to speak or pass, without judgment, fixing, or unsolicited advice.
Why Join a Queer Group?
Affirming Community
Connect with others who share similar experiences and understand the unique challenges of being LGBTQIA+.
Safe Expression
Share your authentic self in a space where all identities are welcomed and celebrated.
Shared Understanding
Find support from people who get it—no need to explain or justify your experiences.
Topics Covered
Identity
- Coming out journeys
- Self-acceptance
- Exploring identity
- Authenticity
Relationships
- Queer dating
- Chosen family
- Navigating family dynamics
- Building community
Well-Being
- Managing minority stress
- Self-care practices
- Finding joy
- Celebrating pride
Ready to Join?
Spaces run weekly with small groups of 3-8 people. Sign up to see available sessions and find a time that works for you.
Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions about Queer Spaces.
Yes! We understand privacy is especially important for many in the LGBTQIA+ community. You can use any name you'd like.
Totem has a zero-tolerance policy against discussing what happens in groups outside the platform. We take confidentiality very seriously.
Our LGBTQIA+ Spaces are led by Keepers who are members of the community themselves and understand the unique experiences of queer individuals.
You're absolutely welcome! Our Spaces are for anyone in the LGBTQIA+ community, including those who are still exploring their identity.
Ready to Find Your Space?
Explore upcoming sessions, choose a conversation that speaks to you, and reserve your spot for free.
